The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. When these relationships end, it is not pretty. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. Try to post the charts so see a visual! What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? I have to always be honest. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. Your articles hit me hard again:-). The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. What conjuncts your Aura? It is sad! His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). Synastry Aspects for Soulmates - Ascendant Conjunct - Galactic Mystic Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Is this you? Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. Hi! I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. I am prone to being attacked in this way. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. Moon Conjunct Eros: Natal, Synastry, Transit | Astrology.com Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. or you consider just the closer orbit? My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. Things to look for in synastry: Here we focus on indications of sexual attraction using Astrology as our tool. Not sure which one id prefer. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! That is what I was saying. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. Just for fun: several INTENSE synastric aspects - Lindaland - Linda Goodman Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? I hear your concern. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. That can be justified through basic psychology, I think. How does that play out? The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. The chart allows one to see oneself. This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. It can also happen that there are changes in your love life when the Vertex is triggered in your birth chart by some transiting planet or progression. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. Thanks for your posts Ami. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. Thanks! Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. You could post it in my Forum if you would like, Eva. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Eros: Essential Sexual Contact or Icing on the Cake? Is it a similar power to the conjunction? As such, Nessus seems out to be the abuser and Deja the victim. it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. Eros: Synastry Aspects . Maybe also Mars/Uranus? My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). Sorry for the late reply. Aww Fluffy The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. Also, our vertexes are separated only by 7 degrees. Sydney, you are amazing. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. Lilith Aspects in Synastry: To Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars Hmm And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? Sorry if its too much info xx, Ps, sorry! If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets. Groom conjunct the Vertex. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. You can think that Im mad that what youre saying is real all you want, but the only thing that bothered me is your fatalistic outlook and claim of truth that is actually not real. I dont do the Draconic. How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! It may be off a few minutes and change things. Thank you, Amiann. Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. These are too many questions for text. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. orb). tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. Amazingly accurate. Vertex conjunct the ascendant is a frequent synastry aspect in the charts of romantic partners. I think you will have the urge to abuse. Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. Wow, Pluto conj the DSC may be looking for partners who have strong primal power and you may not have accessed your own. This will be HOT. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. It is real to be neutral. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. Hardly. Well, we have a Sun (me) trine Pluto and a Pluto (me) conjunct his sun, Thank you so much for the reply and sorry for the late reply, Ive just seen it xx My moon is in Sagittarius and his in cancer, so that always worries me , He has pluto at 27 Virgo with my sun at 11 Virgo. Eros - Synni Signs Astrology Is it relevant? We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. What does that mean? 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. I had waaaaay more rage than he did (granted, there were reasons for that) and said things so hurtful that I wince now when I think about them. Not good, my Friend. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. It makes me feel very crazy. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. under what theme of the forum? Hi, Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. 8. It can ruin possible healthy relationships. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? What would that mean? For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. When someone's planet touches our natal Eros in synastry, it is as if we have been stuck by Cupid's arrow. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Thank you, Kay <3 I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. All of astrology is neutral. Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. Welcome, Britt. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. This totally depends on someone as a person. Are they married, Lo. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. I am not surprised this happened to you. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. I am worried about being the abuser here. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. The chart shows the TRUTH. what would result from this? That is my commitment to my readers. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. You are very welcome, my Friend. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. I hope I can do this in my articles. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. . One other thing that might be helpful with this asteroid pairing, and one that I think is quite meaningful. To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. To gather more about the flavor of the relationship, look to the actual aspect (is it favorable or difficult?) Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Maybe, maybe not. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. Thanks :), I get into this discussion a lot with people. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. I suppose I should add that. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. Im pluto and he is the moon. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. Oops, sorry Amiann. Powerful, you say? But interested to see how things unfold. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Any comments will help. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. Come and post the charts. That never ceases to amaze me, either! With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. I dont really understand the aspect you are asking about. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. It would simply be different. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! 3. Which probably held it together for SO long. Is this a synastry, Ariel? Opposition AC / Moon and trigone mars and saturne. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. You may be fated to marry. In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. I never heard of these asteroids, especially being linked to abusers and victims. Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. <3, Hi AmiAnn, do you have any thoughts on this? And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. What does that mean? I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. Thank You so much for this info. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? xx. It is really rocking my world right now <3. "I want to welcome you to my website. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. We are dealing with very primal emotions here and we all know what primal emotions and passions can do if a person is not careful. The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. Who does whom, so to speak? If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. His abuse asteroid on her midheaven would be her reputation and career, right? There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. I would need to see more, Jenn! Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. In these dark, sexual relationships, you feel the raw passion and soul mate connection like no other. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Lovely, Lo! Your words mean a lot to me! Your Eros Sign Can Explain Your Weird Turn-Ons & Secret Sexual Desires
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